DESTINY: A DELICATE ASSET

An asset is what you own by divine default and/or acquire that improves your value! Choice should be an asset of destiny! Focus on destiny is the right lens of choice! Destiny is heaven’s script concerning you! Destiny is enshrined within a decided tenure (lifetime) and time is that tenure that dies deliberately without man’s approval. Destiny is a delicate asset!
Destiny is the heavenly decided life for man. However, in many cases the autonomy of choice has devastated many destinies. Choice is programmed with consequence and the only way to guard choice is to be convinced that you are right about it. Your choice will either make the world miss or lose your genius. Before making a choice, its crucial to value the future worth of character to destiny! Choice means your approval for God’s will or permission for Satan to accomplish his plan.
 
Trust in the Lord with all your heart, lean NOT on your own understanding! In ALL your ways acknowledge Him and He Shall direct thy path! Proverbs 3:5-6!
 
Destiny is a spiritual asset, human permutations, judgements and assertions cant get it right! Sense knowledge is a poor score in destiny matters, you need Divine knowledge! Our education only speeds up our reasoning ability if we are not bias. Doubt is a bias. Revelation which is divine knowledge existed long before human knowledge emerged. I have discovered that you can get all the education, certifications and professional profiles and be in lofty places but if you don’t understand life, you will fail cheaply! I means, its like seeking capital without management capacity.
 
Adam operated on divine knowledge until sin when his poor human knowledge emerged with leaves for a cover! sin is simply honoring your opinion above scriptural/spiritual instructions! The truth is that no scriptural principle work in isolation, they all work in collaboration. Selective obedience only wins the accolade of failure and mediocrity. 
 
Marriage is one core part of destiny that make you an asset to the world. A misfit wife/husband can plunder many years of life and corrupt destiny, the achievements that ought to mature in 2 years may take 20 years or more because you will deploy 18 years into trying to or getting your focus on your goals because the stench of your choice is distracting you. There are many couples that are no longer coupled, not many couples in uniforms are still coupled. Many wedding pictures are still very fresh but the marriage ended long time ago.
  • A lady may not meet your beauty standard but her Character could beautify your destiny. Another may meet your beauty standard but poison your destiny!
  • A young man could appear likeable but very unreliable! A young man may appear business and financially sustainable but would he treat you like his business or honor you as a woman? A handsome young man without heavenly character is a giant prison and life cage!

Marriage is a choice of what you want to live with! you may get married in church but all you know about marriage is outside Christ or traditional or the tradition of men.

Marriage is a careful deliberation that require the express approval of the codes of the Almighty God. when it comes to marriage the bible must be studied meticulously. Today, it is a pity that we contract marriage with basic knowledge of culture rather the truth of the Biblical perspective. what a faulty formula!
No one can alter biblical order and fulfill destiny! The asset of your destiny is in the biblical order! The truth is incontrovertible, you may criticize it, deride it or mock it but in the end there it is the same. Those who appreciate the truth live it! live the truth!
Your life is your stuff, work on it and Make it worth emulating!
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THERE IS A PAUL IN SAUL

Every Saul lives in a compound, works in an office, teaches in a school, leads a team, does a business in the marketplace, works in an office and walks pass an Ananias every passing minute and day. There is a Paul That lies in them!
 
That armed robber in your neighborhood, That drunkard, that smoker, that assassin you know, That political embezzler, That gambler in your compound, that thief in your office only needs Jesus. Tell Jesus to Him!
 
Saul was a havoc, a menace, a terror in the neighborhood. So is that unsaved soul near you, in your office, doing business with you. Many are also born again but unsaved like Saul. Saul was a PAUL many ignored until Jesus decided to encounter him. You are the Jesus nearby today. you cant tell the blessing in your neighborhood until you spread Jesus around. You cant tell the solution and wealth of safety in your neighborhood until you pray Jesus into it. You don’t know the gold mine in your compound until you share Jesus. Nothing brings a Change like Jesus. I am a living witness. I didn’t know success, victory and freedom until i began to live for Jesus, my wits and education didn’t hold earthly and eternal value until i filled my life with His dimensions. See how much was in Saul,,
 
-He knew the scriptures but interpreted it to suit his vanities.
-He was a leader in the church but carnal and unlike a shepherd.
-He was educated but frustrated with academic philosophy rather than renewal of his mind.
-He was a leader but a vandal and destructive tool.
-He was a team lead but without focus on true value.
-He was a professional but full of compromise with excitement. -He was energetic but committed to destiny damages.
-He was employed but wrongly engaged and empty of fulfillment.
-He was a teacher but with the wrong passion, mentality and quest.
– He was a prolific writer but he wrote for violence, skepticism, circular humor, vain entertainment and immoral incitement.
 
Saul had everything to change His world but lacked someone with the effrontery to share Jesus with Him. PAUL in Saul was only waiting for an encounter with Jesus.
Isn’t our community, offices, businesses, sectors, nation and world being ruined by Saul(s) that have PAUL(S) in them. God made Paul but Satan polluted Paul and made Him Saul. Every “Bad or notorious Person” you see is good but needs Jesus. Water washes clean with a detergent. The gospel is the water and the Blood Jesus shed is the detergent that changes a Saul to a Paul.
we can save our children from the mayhem that Saul carry. we can also enjoy the uncommon impact, influence and difference of Paul in our nation if only we will share the true Jesus! If you need any change, Jesus is that Change, let no one keep in deception and He is there by your side if only you will care to welcome and acknowledge Him. If you are a Saul, you can become Paul by accepting Jesus and EVERYTHING will change not your own way but His own way, Just follow His precepts in His word (The Bible)
Donot forget, you are the Ananias in the straight street nearest to that Saul (The Adulterer, Embezzler, Thief, drunkard, Gambler, Sickle cell patient, Scammer, Swindler, Prostitute, Liar, False Prophet,) in your neighborhood. You are can be the tool to unravel the Paul in Saul. That your office, desk, talent, business, compound, peer group and professional meeting is the Damascus God has provided to unearth a Paul out of Saul.
If only we can bring Paul out of Saul, we have rectified the economic anomalies of our generation.
Our community and country cant and will not witness any change until we become our brothers keeper! How? Help a Saul to see the Paul in him by showing him Jesus, tell Jesus to him and Praying Jesus for Him.  This is the our duty as our brothers keeper irrespective of what we do, How we do what we do is our tool to make it happen.
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WHAT IS WRONG WITH MY GENERATION & SEX?

So many sour occurrences and experiences have made me to ask this question, i know you have heard and read stories more sour but we cant keep hearing, reading and lamenting without a healing. Sex apparently wasn’t meant to ruin man’s happiness but rather to glow it.  Two will never walk together except they agree!
1. A young fresh man in his green attitude dashed into a lecturer’s office in one of our Nigerian university only to find a him in active sexual intercourse with a student at broad day light.
 
2. A screening inspection was talking place in an office and a career woman had to dash home to pick her credentials only to find her husband in dangerous sexual gymnastic with another woman. He hung on unavailability and sexual famine but the woman knew she was busy but guilty.
 
3. A young enterprising man works offshore and upon an unannounced return discovered his wife in a sexual parade with another man. Sex most assuredly would be one of the vehicles to hell with flippant excuses but that was not the plan, we only bought a different formula.
 
Many corporate executives have unholy sexual demands an appraisal issue. many busy people are lost in the job and lost at home. The career, fame and wealth have become a sickness they can only personally endure. Many are dying in silence concerning sexual matters. Satan has counsel singles to view fornication and sophisticated prostitution as a way out of recession. Student trade sex for grades and graduate without a job, sexually get a job and sexually sustain the job. is that life? That is Hell with sex, a sleep with satanic sex offers you a free accommodation in hell should pass on without a change.
 
Many politician in quest for power has been counseled to have satanic sex with their mothers or daughters. what manner of evil, of course it is obvious that that is no longer natural but inhuman. Sex has its spirit, an erection could take a man off his natural senses and a thirsty ovulation could send a careless woman out of a careless tough. sexual urge can be dangerous and demands the right education.
 
There seem to be more infidelity in the Church than in the world? Adultery is fast becoming a norm. Divorce has become a digestive diet in the Church. What is wrong with my generation? The unholy culture is fast becoming the nature of the Church. There seem to be a flood of immorality sweeping away the Spiritual texture of the Church. Marriages are like planes, we only hear of the ones that crash, no wonder sexual perversion has hybernated in the church. Secrets between couples and ignorant application & communication of Love have also damaged the sexual happiness of many homes. The deception of the age and manipulation of sex has crept into the Church. you will wonder what has happen to the BIBLE. 6 to 1 diet of the bible is a terrible formula for a triumphant life, marriage and sex.
 
The first story was recent and i heard to recall the next two with many more that time and space would not permit me to share , and i thought deeply, what exactly is wrong with my generation and sex. The gift has become sinful goad. Indeed ignorance and indiscipline are powerful combinations that perfect bondage and disgrace. shame is indeed the promotion of fools, a fool is one who rejects the knowledge of God.
 
My generation of young people don’t understand that fornication is like a gadget that when you activate play, it takes God to pulse. Amazingly my generation has failed to understand that Adultery works smoothly with unavailability, anonymity and affordability. both sexual perversion works with disobedience to God. when your Spirit is dormant, your flesh will be active. temptation ride on dominant flesh and passive spiritual control.
 
Sex is a divine gift purposely in marriage but Satan perverted it and mass produced the satanic perspective of sex. Sexual urge is an offshoot of chemicals, it begins with words that drive activation of hormones that increase sexual drive. Words power power touch and touch increase these chemical reactions in the body and sexual drive, stimulation and urge is increased to a point of gratification that ends in sex. sexual urge is a body chemistry reaction that also be powered by a seductive force.
 
It is written the power of life and death lies in the tongue, many have silenced their marital peace and harmony with awful communication. when a wife tells or asks her husband “Is sex food” and a husband tells the wife “are you a dog”. Then they have murdered sex in that marriage.i thought couples are meant to be open, honest and sincere since a third party is a marital death warrant. Only maturity helps a man or woman to hear and understand, more so know how to respond. Age is not wisdom, wisdom is superior to age and puberty. Marriage and sex is a matter of wisdom. it takes a prudent wife and a wise man to live sexually happy. Sexual organs don’t talk but are controlled by communications verbal and non verbal! Sex responds to mentality faster than the act itself. Ecstasy or climax is a powerful communication with heavy consequence, communication is a huge decision process. sex is not love but love leads to sex. Erection is not a defect and amorous responses are not mistakes, they communicate judgements.
 
Never ask your spouse, is sex food or are you never tired? It is scarcely possible to leave sex for food but it is very Possible to leave for for sex. when sex is off your menu list, you are inviting tension in your matrimonial home! Denying you spouse sex is killing the marriage.
 
Sex is not an option in marriage, it is an obligation. If you give a woman everything, all the money and comfort and fail to satisfy her sexually or unavailable for sexual unity in marriage, you have done nothing. sex makes a woman feel like a woman. sex makes a man feel the ego of a man. Sex is God ordained pleasure within the confines of marriage. when a car is not serviced, it will loose viscosity.
 
Don’t kill your marriage with sexual denial. They don’t preach this on the altar. Adam and Eve were naked and not ashamed. Men and Women have varying sexual drive, one party passive and the other passive, In marriage we must close the gap else we brake the edge and the serpent will bite. Couple should talk to each other and be willing to render the benevolence Paul admonished in 1 Cor 7:1-5!
 
Some spouses has been deceived by size of organ for sexual satisfaction, it is not what you have but how you use what you have. The man with the biggest male organ in the world is under torments, lonely, abandoned and rejected. Read it up (Roberto Esquivel Cabrera, 54, from Saltillo, Mexico, has a penis measuring a colossal 18.9 inches.) is that what you want? He laments of such a yoke in his life. yet some women and men are seeking satanic means to increase their organ, are you wiser than God? get out if ignorance and read anointed books that teach Christian ways of managing sexual incompatibility.
 
Safe your spouse the temptation out there. Overgrow temptation by eating well at home, eating out is greed punishable with unwanted and ill-bargained calamities. Whatever has no boundaries, is a bondage.  Don’t employ a partner you may never be able to sack your sour experience with. This and more, my generation must know. I believe that this piece would safe a couple, marriage, fornicator, adulterer and a home.
 
My generation must be healed of this sexual mentality defect.
 
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Afolabi Julius Olatunde

THERE IS MORE AHEAD…

“forgetting what lies behind and straining forward to what lies ahead, i press on toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus” Philippians 3:13-14

No matter what you circumstance was yesterday, it is history! today is a new day that you are meant to have a fresh start. Those who spend today mourning yesterday never live to enjoy tomorrow. Weeping may have endured for the night but this is the morning of your joy, don’t ruin it in depression and thanklessness. The poverty of hopelessness is that it ruins the potency of the future. you are richer than you were poor yesterday if only you will acknowledge and expect the good of today. The future is wealthier than the past why trade today for the poor yesterday. The afflictions of yesterday could be great but God’s mercy of today is opening doors of triumph for you! There is good news today, when i wake up , i fashion my mind for what good God is about to do this new day because God is good and His mercies kept me alive for the good of today, it has then become unreasonable to impoverish today and drain it of its potency to make my life precious. Grace is not a christian exclusive, it is fund of sure safety for all men alive.

Today is like the sun, walk towards it hope and the shadows of yesterdays grief would be cast behind you permanently.  Seek God, He add in the proportion to which we seek Him. Without renewal there would never be an improvement!

BE anxious for nothing but in thankfulness and prayer make your desired request known unto God. Miracles happen after prayers, Jesus walked on water after prayers. Matt 14:22-28!He contributed nothing to the bad news of yesterday but faced the future with prayers and thankfulness. Joy is the fountain of wellness, grieve breaks the bones and wears out the Spirit (which is the real you). Depression suppresses energy for progression.


Amazingly i discovered Scarcity does not exit, Scarcity is only a veil of ignorance, scarcity does not really exit. It may be somewhat difficult for you to agree with me but I show you the truth now. Have you noticed that no matter how bad your condition or financial situation is, there is always a five loaves and two fish around we just always says what can these do? Around you, if you can scan your environment, inherent ability and your house well there is always a cruise of oil that does not fail but we often trivialize its capacity because we don’t know God kept is around to round off our poverty. We often lack the multiplicative capacity to expand the cruise of oil by right and wise investment or exchange. There is always the trinity of inherent ability, skilled acquired by training and supernatural gift that suffocates stagnation!


Martin Luther King Jnr once said “we must accept finite disappointment but we must never lose infinite hope

Depression releases the reality of recession but joy incubates the focused thinking of surpassing abundance. Paul said i have dumped my degrees and skills for the surpassing call on my maker. Dumping doesn’t mean deactivation but rather activating in alignment with God’s will. you are created as a rescue, your craft which is your specific and peculiar skill is your wealth zone beyond recession. That is your cruise of oil and your five loaves plus two fish, if you belittle it you will always resign to the grief of yesterday. strife to improve on what you have been doing, find out why your efforts haven’t yielded the much you expect, take a walk of solitude to ventilate your mind for the new approach to crucify your dilemma.

The truth remains we all have homogeneous issues but our approaches are heterogeneous. That is the wonder of ingenuity. discouragement and complains will lock down your ingenuity. stop spending time with the media news, why get worked up listening to the media woes, settle with the good news that where the script of relevant abundance is discovered and published.  Government don’t resolve recession, recession is a wind (no one can really tell its origin) that sinks those who focus on it but surpassing abundance is with the superior wind which you are according to John 3:8!  no one can tell your future but the book of life in this life and the life to come. if our actions are documented in books, what do you think your action should be today. stay discouraged and downcast? NO! There is more ahead, dig and search it out in the master script. Luke 4:18. Psalms 40:7!

There is more ahead of you, don’t die with yesterday today! The failure of yesterday is gone, get over the friendly enemy of yesterday, get over the betrayal of yesterday, cancel the disappointment of yesterday, start afresh today with all of its abundance and secure your surpassing wealthy posterity.

Business is going to be great today, Promotion is coming today, health is restored today, your husband is coming back today, your baby is arriving today, the test for the long awaited pregnancy is coming positive today. Good things will happen for you today, let yesterday reports die and position to live in the joy of today and well-being of tomorrow.

It became good news that Mary did not have an abortion, don’t abort your hope, you must carry the word of promise until the promise carries out of that condition. your mirror doesn’t give you a full script of you, it explained only your physical but your spirit man can only be pictured in the word. Adjusting the physical body and the intellectual mind cant clean the mess of life up but the renewing the mind and building the Spirit with the word adjust life dramatically.  Your degree, certificate, bank account, physical beauty would not face God in the final analysis, it is your Spirit that will! The word of God is more sure word of prophesy with incorruptibility. Take the pill of the word of God today , accept it and believe it , it will cure all of yesterday’s griefs and any other forever!

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BE FLEXIBLY STRATEGIC

Being subjectively rigid is a lot of work that leads to business and corporate losses.

God is STRATEGIC, He will go for the man or woman abandoned or forgotten to remember a generation, community, nation or people. God works with identifying potentials that no one can see to achieve all that many celebrate in ages. I Cor 2:18-20!

Jesus went to the tomb to heal one mad man who had great evangelistic potential to reach the entire city. He also decided to have a brief chat with a renowned prostitute who had great evangelistic potentials to sell the raw gospel to the entire city. Mark 5:1-20!

Banking was interesting for me, you could be terrible in operations but should they discover that you have some marketing skills you are immediately re-fused. As soon as my BM in 2002 discovered I could speak the three major languages he relocated me from operations to marketing. I didn’t do much but was the best contract staff in marketing because I understood the dynamics between operations and marketing staff.

Some years ago, the bank had a big challenge in one of its IT locations; we had a contract staff in the IT department that resolved that issue that the whole IT team including the GM IT couldn’t resolve. This contract staff didn’t study electrical electronic or computer electronics. He didn’t even have a degree so he was often relegated and dispersed but inside him was the solution that could have cost the bank several millions. This young man went to the scene and resolved it in days what for months experts couldn’t even understand. The contract staff was just talented in anything computer and employed without a degree.

MD/CEO can you identify one manager who can take another market for you? Manager/ Supervisor can you identify a super-marketer that can launch change your bottom line with his skills? That employee that seems a low performer, timid can you surge up the lion inside him out to bulldoze the market your entire team couldn’t handle.

Be FLEXIBLY STRATEGIC. Manager all that you are wasting the business funds for is in that staff you hate so much, pastor all that the church is suffering can be resolved from that seemingly poor brilliant brother but you ego and office would not allow you consider it. Bishop you know your problem is one private sin that nobody knows about but the euphoria of your position cannot make you apologize to the man you offended. Capon you know that you are suffering in that cult but you feel too big to respond to altar call. There is one thing to get all other things done. Stop being headstrong about giving God that chance to settle all your matter. See the flexibly strategy..

Seek ye first the kingdom of God and EVERY OTHER THING SHALL BE ADDED UNTO YOU. What are you running about for? What has been your entire race in life about? Wouldn’t you rather consider Mathew 6:33!

 

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THE GREATNESS IN YOU!

You are the light of the world, city set upon the hill that cannot be hid. Matthew 5:14. Don’t let your sour experience hide you! God is aware and has the way out.

Getting admission into all levels of my educational pursuit was a sour experience but today the wisdom of God has made me a solution carrier in counsel and business strategy. Is there anything difficult before God especially when you submit to Him? Certainly NO! Your case is not closed; your sour experiences can become your lemonade of impact, influence and income!

Every sour experience of life is a proof of the greatness within you. Many of our sour experiences are seeds of impact, influence and wealth. Many people would never have impacted their world if they had no sour experiences.

The world wouldn’t have celebrated a man like Abraham Lincoln if he hadn’t the sour experiences of serial failure. It was a dangerous sickness that ushered the greatness of Kenneth Hagin’s life. It is the terribleness of poverty that made many people to think and grow rich. what lemonade of value are you going to make of your sour experiences in life to be a blessing to humanity?

The bible is a bank of solution options better than any level of education or human therapy. The bible is the word of God that is true!

What are you passing through? Trust God and believe in Him to see you through so that you can tell the tales of your experiences to preserve many and impact your world.

That poor man cried unto the Lord, the Lord heard him and delivered him from all his troubles. Psalms 34:6! Unto Him that answereth prayers shall all flesh come! Prayers is telling your sour experiences to God because vain is the help of man!

What are your sour experiences today, in your life, marriage, business, career or health? Go tell them to God today! Go to church today, listen to the word of God genuinely, rededicate your life back to God where needful and if you haven’t given your life to Christ before , do so today and let God turn your trials and tribulations to testimonies of triumph and you tell your story you make impact and income.

You are born great to live great, there is greatness in you irrespective of your sour experiences, don’t die little.

Have a blast of revival today in Jesus name!

Julius Afolabi ..

MARRIAGE AND WEDDING TIPS IN RECESSION

Prudence is superior to recession. Love is wise.  Recession should suspend your wedding!

In all sincerity, Recession shouldn’t stop your wedding if you have matured your preparation for marriage. Stop postponing your marriage if you are ripe, life is a race against time. The major factor is marrying right and Making the right decision. It is not about what people will say, it is what your experience and life will be after the wedding that is crucial. it is important not to enter marriage because of wedding or pressure, if you are frustrated before wedding, you will be humiliated in marriage. Don’t know it all, pride ushers disgraceful fall. Seek the face of God and seek counsel from spiritually matured people prayerfully.

Here are a few tips to tip off your slumber and economic fear. Wedding is only a bridge not a location!

Many people want to impress people and depress themselves. It is the marriage that matters o.
– It is not how flamboyant your wedding is, it is how blissful your marriage will be. Your wedding budget has no correlation with your marital joy. Understanding is the differential. You don’t need a deficit budget to fix your wedding, your marriage will have an unfavorable balance and then you swim into validating your decision. Debt driven wedding makes marriage a liability.
– Wedding card is a disposable, who said you can’t print letters? its an invite not a wall plaque.
– If you slaughter countless cows men will still complain. People are invited to witness not to consume. Refreshment is not 3 square meal.
– Rather than owe to fix wedding, sow a seed to seal your marriage.
– Some churches don’t take offerings in wedding ceremonies, why should officiating ministers demand honorarium? Let God honor you. Jesus our example said I receive no honor from men. John 5:41!
– Many Aso ebi don’t last beyond the wedding neither are they true symbols of family love and unity. Marital and family unity is superior to aso ebi unity. Even wicked uncles and auntys wear aso ebi.
– Engagement and wedding could be done the same day. Time is life. Merge the expenses. It will reduce accommodation expense and inconvenience challenges. Serious people are busy.
– You don’t have to buy two rings, get a wedding band. The commitment is between the couples not the world. The people who will say you don’t have an engagement ring will see your wedding band. Two rings self no be weight?
– Thank God wedding gowns can be rented but where you can afford, buy one. If you cant, rent one, after all you are not going to announce that you did. The major matter is ensure you pray fervently over the rented gown so that you don’t import the marital realities of those who have used that you may never know their spiritual and personal status. Life is deep! Some people say wedding gown are ceremonial burial garment. its all a tradition of old tale! Would the ceremonial burial gown change the eternal home of the person? It is what you did with your life and choice that matter at death. Duet 30:19. Let’s get out of tradition and face the truth.
– Be happy with those that didn’t attend your wedding but are praying for your marriage than those who attended but wish you hell in the marriage or showed up for analysis and mockery.
– Traditional rites should not be a rope of suicide, if all God who gives and sustain life is only asking for our choice to obey Him, (Ecc 12:13) why should any man compel people for excessive material demands with financial burden. Pray to God concerning what you can give to Caesar, humbly seek discounts. Ask, negotiate. Be spiritual not traditional too, because the gift of a man is a point of contact. Pray about everything!!! God will help you and grant you favor once your bed and courtship process is not defiled.

Don’t let recession be an excuse! If you can afford a colorful wedding why not but if you can’t don’t die in depression. It is marital experience that is the color of your wedding.

Purposeful Life is not for comparison, everyone has his or her lane. Don’t compare and contrast till you frustrate yourself. Life is an individual race. Every man shall be accountable for himself.

With these few wits of mine, i believe i have relieved you of the mask of economic fear!

Please share, freely contribute and comment objectively.

Julius Afolabi