Sex is a divine gift purposely in marriage but Satan perverted it and mass produced the satanic perspective of sex. Sexual urge is an offshoot of chemicals, it begins with words that drive activation of hormones that increase sexual drive. Words power power touch and touch increase these chemical reactions in the body and sexual drive, stimulation and urge is increased to a point of gratification that ends in sex. sexual urge is a body chemistry reaction that also be powered by a seductive force.
Train up a child in the way that he should go and when he is old he will not depart from it. Proverbs 22:6
It is value that makes us understand that our experiences in life are insulators of safety for the exploits of others. That our scars are to secure the injuries of others and our speed is to challenge the laxity of the many. As we grow, let us grow in value and that only shows we are able to see better and rightly.
A father is different from a parent. Anybody can be a parent but being a father is God’s prerogative. Everyone has a supernatural and natural father. We pray our father who hath in heaven and then we were born into a family where we are identified with our biological father whom we did not choose. The differential is responsibility.
God fulfilled the responsibility of a father by providing a training manual in the form a bible and in it he documented how we ought to train up our own children because they are his heritage. We are not train them our own way but God’s own way. Train up a child in the way he should and when he grows up he will not depart from it.
Mephiboseth was incapacitated by a nurse who dropped him off to fall to the ground and lost his feet. Fathers are nurses and many fathers today are like Mephiboseth nurse. However, a father who was not his parent spoke for him and he was restored to his place, the place of royalty. He sat with kings at feast. This is what a father does, trains up a child in a manner that bring them to dignity and royalty. May God grant every parent the wisdom and grace of fatherhood to nurture kings from their loins. Sperm is not a product of the excitement of ecstasy but the birth of a destiny. Mind where you spill yours, you will give account of it. Ask Onan.
Children are diverse, ideas, businesses, service, talent and inventions are children, they call them brain child or mental fertility. We must do or conduct our mental children in a manner that nourishes humanity and give glory to God. That is the way they should go and when we are gone the systems we created will still be solving the issues of humanity.
Many parents have been upgraded to fathers by taken responsibility and many have also fallen from fathers to parent by the ladder of irresponsibility. Save your child today with the rod if need be. (Proverbs 23:13) Don’t pamper a child to scatter his or her destiny. Instruction is not with money. Mordecai was a security man but Esther was not wayward! Your low income is not an excuse to shirk the discipline of your child. Since the days America removed the bible and child spanking from the curriculum of child training, their unemployment statistics began to grow because the American children drifted into laziness, loathsomeness and latitude of attitude.
Our generation is growing out of line, parents must become fathers and fathers must instill the moral codes required to match the demands of the future. today, knowledge is on the increase but change is not happening because application is undervalued. Our children will beckon on the role we played in the degeneration of the world we have shaped.
Train up your child or children and God bless you.
Dedicated to my lovely daughter who turns 7! Daughter you are blessed beyond measure through the love of God!
Prudence is superior to recession. Love is wise. Recession should suspend your wedding!
In all sincerity, Recession shouldn’t stop your wedding if you have matured your preparation for marriage. Stop postponing your marriage if you are ripe, life is a race against time. The major factor is marrying right and Making the right decision. It is not about what people will say, it is what your experience and life will be after the wedding that is crucial. it is important not to enter marriage because of wedding or pressure, if you are frustrated before wedding, you will be humiliated in marriage. Don’t know it all, pride ushers disgraceful fall. Seek the face of God and seek counsel from spiritually matured people prayerfully.
Here are a few tips to tip off your slumber and economic fear. Wedding is only a bridge not a location!
Many people want to impress people and depress themselves. It is the marriage that matters o.
– It is not how flamboyant your wedding is, it is how blissful your marriage will be. Your wedding budget has no correlation with your marital joy. Understanding is the differential. You don’t need a deficit budget to fix your wedding, your marriage will have an unfavorable balance and then you swim into validating your decision. Debt driven wedding makes marriage a liability.
– Wedding card is a disposable, who said you can’t print letters? its an invite not a wall plaque.
– If you slaughter countless cows men will still complain. People are invited to witness not to consume. Refreshment is not 3 square meal.
– Rather than owe to fix wedding, sow a seed to seal your marriage.
– Some churches don’t take offerings in wedding ceremonies, why should officiating ministers demand honorarium? Let God honor you. Jesus our example said I receive no honor from men. John 5:41!
– Many Aso ebi don’t last beyond the wedding neither are they true symbols of family love and unity. Marital and family unity is superior to aso ebi unity. Even wicked uncles and auntys wear aso ebi.
– Engagement and wedding could be done the same day. Time is life. Merge the expenses. It will reduce accommodation expense and inconvenience challenges. Serious people are busy.
– You don’t have to buy two rings, get a wedding band. The commitment is between the couples not the world. The people who will say you don’t have an engagement ring will see your wedding band. Two rings self no be weight?
– Thank God wedding gowns can be rented but where you can afford, buy one. If you cant, rent one, after all you are not going to announce that you did. The major matter is ensure you pray fervently over the rented gown so that you don’t import the marital realities of those who have used that you may never know their spiritual and personal status. Life is deep! Some people say wedding gown are ceremonial burial garment. its all a tradition of old tale! Would the ceremonial burial gown change the eternal home of the person? It is what you did with your life and choice that matter at death. Duet 30:19. Let’s get out of tradition and face the truth.
– Be happy with those that didn’t attend your wedding but are praying for your marriage than those who attended but wish you hell in the marriage or showed up for analysis and mockery.
– Traditional rites should not be a rope of suicide, if all God who gives and sustain life is only asking for our choice to obey Him, (Ecc 12:13) why should any man compel people for excessive material demands with financial burden. Pray to God concerning what you can give to Caesar, humbly seek discounts. Ask, negotiate. Be spiritual not traditional too, because the gift of a man is a point of contact. Pray about everything!!! God will help you and grant you favor once your bed and courtship process is not defiled.
Don’t let recession be an excuse! If you can afford a colorful wedding why not but if you can’t don’t die in depression. It is marital experience that is the color of your wedding.
Purposeful Life is not for comparison, everyone has his or her lane. Don’t compare and contrast till you frustrate yourself. Life is an individual race. Every man shall be accountable for himself.
With these few wits of mine, i believe i have relieved you of the mask of economic fear!
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