NEVER HURT FOR FUN

No matter the area of life or endeavor you find yourself, it is safe to mind the way you treat others, the repercussions of intentionally hurting others for fun is grave! many people have planted ignominy and thick cloud of struggle over the years ahead of them. Don’t let your mindless actions empty your future. The future is delicate! Some years back, a teenager profoundly defined fun and pleasure as things and activities that get you off normal for a while. There is one thing I have discovered life keeps a file! In the habitat of fun, many have incurred long term struggles over their life. Many years after men would have forgotten their deeds, time keeps the record and maturity of hurt brings them to bear!

Even so the tongue is a little member, and boasteth great things. Behold, how great a matter a little fire kindleth! And the tongue [is] a fire, a world of iniquity: so is the tongue among our members, that it defileth the whole body, and setteth on fire the course of nature; and it is set on fire of hell. James 3:5-6.

Years ago I saw a movie where a woman who had three children as they walked along the road, a reckless drunk driver ran through them and murdered the three children and sped off. The woman out of the agony of pains with almost nothing to live for and the sour memories of the tragic death of her children spoke ill words “may the one who caused her this pain never find help”. The reckless drunk thought it was fun but for over 20,30 years he labored in vain, his life was full of pains, struggle and emptiness. help was far from him and his family. He had forgotten where he wronged and it was no longer fun for him again. Are you carelessly hurting someone? Have you hurt someone intentionally and laughing it over? Are you putting someone through pains? Think again and rush back for forgiveness and mercy now! Hmmm.. When we forget ourselves, we do things that are remembered.

But the tongue can no man tame; [it is] an unruly evil, full of deadly poison. James 3:8.

Words are powerful; a pronouncement from an afflicted heart will be honored. The tongue is such a lethal instrument, it curses and blesses. The wish of the afflicted will be granted without hesitation especially when the hurt was an intentional wicked act or hurt for fun. It is wickedness to delight in hurting people for fun. Some friends will stab the other so badly that the other party in the midst of the cry of pain will make painful pronouncements. They may be few words but can damage the entire life of the callous offender. A very bitter person may barely say, as you have made life tough for me, may life be tough for you or may you not find a helper!may you not attract battles of pains to yourself in Jesus name!

Some people just derive fun from hurting people. They just laugh carelessly over the pains of others but a careful sorrow of grief awaits them also. What a culture of cruelty! God said owe no man anything except love. Anything outside love for and to a fellow man is share wickedness. only a wicked soul laughs at others calamity or rejoices at the fall of others! Woe unto him by who offense come. There are people you think can’t do anything to you because you may be more than them in everything(probably richer and more influential than they are for now) but may they not use their tongue against you. i admonish you Never undervalue anyone or say you can’t do anything especially when you are oppressing such a person!  it maybe your spouse or friend, colleague , family member or even brethren. The same way a heartfelt prayer gets answers so also painful negative pronouncement launches sorrow into the life and generation of the wicked.

Listen well, you may take your wicked act for fun but you will be under the tribute and curse of your action. Actions are investment. These days, some young men just go about getting ladies pregnant for fun and abandon or deny them, they raise the child in struggles and some may never be fortunate to settle for another family again, hence they live in pains and hurt. Some of these people out of pains may sometimes just make terrible pronouncement and that pronouncement will form a canopy over the offender. There is nothing that the offender will do in his life that will see the light of the day, it will be struggle upon struggle. Life will be acidic and corrosive to such.  Dignity starts with the man! Stop enjoying irresponsibility!

The message is that when we refuse to take responsibility, when we are callous and careless, we attract battles of struggles in life!

Don’t hurt for fun, it is disastrous. stay truly amiable!

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Julius Afolabi

BUSINESS HEART

The chicken-hearted man has no place in business. Business takes a heart resolved to confront the trimesters of the success incubation. Just like the conceptional challenges of pregnancy delivery, entrepreneurship demands that you plant a heart of purpose in your craft in a manner that conquer every temptation of moral compromise that has bedeviled the corporate and business world of today!
 
Mark Cuban said “work like there is someone working 24 hours to take it all away from you”. The truth is that the road to exceptional success is always under construction. Determination is simply a recipe of continuous learning and innovative potency that keeps what is on-ground in a multiplied variety without infraction of supreme value. The marketplace is always a question mark seek the sickle of exceptional insight and value of solution.
 
Laban crafted a business model difficult to beat by ordinary sense but Jacob’s determination and mental acuity defeated the model to control and dominate the market.
 
Entrepreneurship is the act or art of creating a simple solution to a complex problem and making money out of it. It is like planting a tree and standing under the sun until the tree grows to produce a shade for you!
 
In the world of Business it is impossible to conquer without determination. To a very large extent, determination has a way of funding dominion because it reflects the intensity of desire, the curiosity of creativity and willingness to commit innovative action. competition are never asleep during your market entry, espionage and bench-marking plus ruthless brainstorming are unending in the market and business world. without a Business heart, you will fall be the way side.
 
Henry ford’s determination changed the face of transportation in the 20th Century. Apparently that determination sponsored also the birth of Toyota! The Ford brand is heavy and duty bound but the Toyota brand is simple and economic. This infers that when our determination is heavy, every obstacle will become simple and economic. The product features of economy and simplicity is a market advantage and value innovation.
 
How determined are you to take your dominion? How much of your desire is a thought for the future?
 
Dont Chicken out of that business, invest time and learning for a new heart so that you can confront what you earlier desire to flee from. Crack the codes with the Truth and work. John 8:36, James 2:17-18, 4:2!
 
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Julius Afolabi

DESTINY: A DELICATE ASSET

An asset is what you own by divine default and/or acquire that improves your value! Choice should be an asset of destiny! Focus on destiny is the right lens of choice! Destiny is heaven’s script concerning you! Destiny is enshrined within a decided tenure (lifetime) and time is that tenure that dies deliberately without man’s approval. Destiny is a delicate asset!
Destiny is the heavenly decided life for man. However, in many cases the autonomy of choice has devastated many destinies. Choice is programmed with consequence and the only way to guard choice is to be convinced that you are right about it. Your choice will either make the world miss or lose your genius. Before making a choice, its crucial to value the future worth of character to destiny! Choice means your approval for God’s will or permission for Satan to accomplish his plan.
 
Trust in the Lord with all your heart, lean NOT on your own understanding! In ALL your ways acknowledge Him and He Shall direct thy path! Proverbs 3:5-6!
 
Destiny is a spiritual asset, human permutations, judgements and assertions cant get it right! Sense knowledge is a poor score in destiny matters, you need Divine knowledge! Our education only speeds up our reasoning ability if we are not bias. Doubt is a bias. Revelation which is divine knowledge existed long before human knowledge emerged. I have discovered that you can get all the education, certifications and professional profiles and be in lofty places but if you don’t understand life, you will fail cheaply! I means, its like seeking capital without management capacity.
 
Adam operated on divine knowledge until sin when his poor human knowledge emerged with leaves for a cover! sin is simply honoring your opinion above scriptural/spiritual instructions! The truth is that no scriptural principle work in isolation, they all work in collaboration. Selective obedience only wins the accolade of failure and mediocrity. 
 
Marriage is one core part of destiny that make you an asset to the world. A misfit wife/husband can plunder many years of life and corrupt destiny, the achievements that ought to mature in 2 years may take 20 years or more because you will deploy 18 years into trying to or getting your focus on your goals because the stench of your choice is distracting you. There are many couples that are no longer coupled, not many couples in uniforms are still coupled. Many wedding pictures are still very fresh but the marriage ended long time ago.
  • A lady may not meet your beauty standard but her Character could beautify your destiny. Another may meet your beauty standard but poison your destiny!
  • A young man could appear likeable but very unreliable! A young man may appear business and financially sustainable but would he treat you like his business or honor you as a woman? A handsome young man without heavenly character is a giant prison and life cage!

Marriage is a choice of what you want to live with! you may get married in church but all you know about marriage is outside Christ or traditional or the tradition of men.

Marriage is a careful deliberation that require the express approval of the codes of the Almighty God. when it comes to marriage the bible must be studied meticulously. Today, it is a pity that we contract marriage with basic knowledge of culture rather the truth of the Biblical perspective. what a faulty formula!
No one can alter biblical order and fulfill destiny! The asset of your destiny is in the biblical order! The truth is incontrovertible, you may criticize it, deride it or mock it but in the end there it is the same. Those who appreciate the truth live it! live the truth!
Your life is your stuff, work on it and Make it worth emulating!
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BUSINESS AND CAREER TENACITY CONFERENCE…

BUSINESS TENACITY
Tenacity is a determination that isnt ready to waver.
 
Faith is knowledge,strategic diligence and fitted operational efficiency. Jesus is the market place professional who has the codes of sustainable profit. what superlative economic code does your business, career, finance and profession play by?
 
If you can touch Jesus with faith in the market place then your profitability is guaranteed. Mark 6:56!
 
There was a woman who tenaciously worked her way into life profits in the market place. She held unto one unique business proposition ” if i can only touch the hem of his garment, she didnt care how much blood she lost, who mocked her and revile her, she kept the experience of evergreen profits with confidence. She was simply called “the woman with the issue of blood” but she changed everything with tenacity.
 
There another man who tenaciously declared his financial liberty despite the recession and herculean harassment of cost and physical resistances. He broke the cycle of age long average life and visionary bleakness. He masterminded operational efficiency and secured a sustainable life! He was only called, Blind Bartimaeus.
 
When the revelation and declaration of divine truths and market cum research discoveries builds you confidence of pursuit about your natural circumstances, tenacity is born!
JESUS is still passing through the Market places, Corporate places and professional places.
 
What do you want to change in your business, career, marriage, finance and profession? Are you tenaciously disposed?

Join me for the BUSINESS and CAREER TENACITY CONFERENCE on May 01, 2017.

Interested participants can send a mail to julius.afolabi@gmail.com or call 08032626555 for further details. it is for a limited Participation.

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INVESTMENT QUEST

Are all your investments in Sodom? Ask lot, His ROI was negative! He even lost his initial capital outlay! HE was empty! Lot made heavy losses! Be an Abraham!

Lay not up for yourselves treasures upon earth, where moth and rust doth corrupt, and where thieves break through and steal: But lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust doth corrupt, and where thieves do not break through nor steal: For where your treasure is, there will your heart be also.Lay up your treasures In Heaven where moth and rots cannot touch! Matt 6: 19-21.

Time depreciates everything on earth, inflation will never be zero on earth. SWOT and PEST will never be consistent on earth. Heaven has no depreciation, inflation or corruption, isn’t it wise to invest there while you are on earth?

what do you have to look forward to in heaven?

Life is a CAPITAL, invest it wisely!

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THERE IS A PAUL IN SAUL

Every Saul lives in a compound, works in an office, teaches in a school, leads a team, does a business in the marketplace, works in an office and walks pass an Ananias every passing minute and day. There is a Paul That lies in them!
 
That armed robber in your neighborhood, That drunkard, that smoker, that assassin you know, That political embezzler, That gambler in your compound, that thief in your office only needs Jesus. Tell Jesus to Him!
 
Saul was a havoc, a menace, a terror in the neighborhood. So is that unsaved soul near you, in your office, doing business with you. Many are also born again but unsaved like Saul. Saul was a PAUL many ignored until Jesus decided to encounter him. You are the Jesus nearby today. you cant tell the blessing in your neighborhood until you spread Jesus around. You cant tell the solution and wealth of safety in your neighborhood until you pray Jesus into it. You don’t know the gold mine in your compound until you share Jesus. Nothing brings a Change like Jesus. I am a living witness. I didn’t know success, victory and freedom until i began to live for Jesus, my wits and education didn’t hold earthly and eternal value until i filled my life with His dimensions. See how much was in Saul,,
 
-He knew the scriptures but interpreted it to suit his vanities.
-He was a leader in the church but carnal and unlike a shepherd.
-He was educated but frustrated with academic philosophy rather than renewal of his mind.
-He was a leader but a vandal and destructive tool.
-He was a team lead but without focus on true value.
-He was a professional but full of compromise with excitement. -He was energetic but committed to destiny damages.
-He was employed but wrongly engaged and empty of fulfillment.
-He was a teacher but with the wrong passion, mentality and quest.
– He was a prolific writer but he wrote for violence, skepticism, circular humor, vain entertainment and immoral incitement.
 
Saul had everything to change His world but lacked someone with the effrontery to share Jesus with Him. PAUL in Saul was only waiting for an encounter with Jesus.
Isn’t our community, offices, businesses, sectors, nation and world being ruined by Saul(s) that have PAUL(S) in them. God made Paul but Satan polluted Paul and made Him Saul. Every “Bad or notorious Person” you see is good but needs Jesus. Water washes clean with a detergent. The gospel is the water and the Blood Jesus shed is the detergent that changes a Saul to a Paul.
we can save our children from the mayhem that Saul carry. we can also enjoy the uncommon impact, influence and difference of Paul in our nation if only we will share the true Jesus! If you need any change, Jesus is that Change, let no one keep in deception and He is there by your side if only you will care to welcome and acknowledge Him. If you are a Saul, you can become Paul by accepting Jesus and EVERYTHING will change not your own way but His own way, Just follow His precepts in His word (The Bible)
Donot forget, you are the Ananias in the straight street nearest to that Saul (The Adulterer, Embezzler, Thief, drunkard, Gambler, Sickle cell patient, Scammer, Swindler, Prostitute, Liar, False Prophet,) in your neighborhood. You are can be the tool to unravel the Paul in Saul. That your office, desk, talent, business, compound, peer group and professional meeting is the Damascus God has provided to unearth a Paul out of Saul.
If only we can bring Paul out of Saul, we have rectified the economic anomalies of our generation.
Our community and country cant and will not witness any change until we become our brothers keeper! How? Help a Saul to see the Paul in him by showing him Jesus, tell Jesus to him and Praying Jesus for Him.  This is the our duty as our brothers keeper irrespective of what we do, How we do what we do is our tool to make it happen.
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WHAT IS WRONG WITH MY GENERATION & SEX?

So many sour occurrences and experiences have made me to ask this question, i know you have heard and read stories more sour but we cant keep hearing, reading and lamenting without a healing. Sex apparently wasn’t meant to ruin man’s happiness but rather to glow it.  Two will never walk together except they agree!
1. A young fresh man in his green attitude dashed into a lecturer’s office in one of our Nigerian university only to find a him in active sexual intercourse with a student at broad day light.
 
2. A screening inspection was talking place in an office and a career woman had to dash home to pick her credentials only to find her husband in dangerous sexual gymnastic with another woman. He hung on unavailability and sexual famine but the woman knew she was busy but guilty.
 
3. A young enterprising man works offshore and upon an unannounced return discovered his wife in a sexual parade with another man. Sex most assuredly would be one of the vehicles to hell with flippant excuses but that was not the plan, we only bought a different formula.
 
Many corporate executives have unholy sexual demands an appraisal issue. many busy people are lost in the job and lost at home. The career, fame and wealth have become a sickness they can only personally endure. Many are dying in silence concerning sexual matters. Satan has counsel singles to view fornication and sophisticated prostitution as a way out of recession. Student trade sex for grades and graduate without a job, sexually get a job and sexually sustain the job. is that life? That is Hell with sex, a sleep with satanic sex offers you a free accommodation in hell should pass on without a change.
 
Many politician in quest for power has been counseled to have satanic sex with their mothers or daughters. what manner of evil, of course it is obvious that that is no longer natural but inhuman. Sex has its spirit, an erection could take a man off his natural senses and a thirsty ovulation could send a careless woman out of a careless tough. sexual urge can be dangerous and demands the right education.
 
There seem to be more infidelity in the Church than in the world? Adultery is fast becoming a norm. Divorce has become a digestive diet in the Church. What is wrong with my generation? The unholy culture is fast becoming the nature of the Church. There seem to be a flood of immorality sweeping away the Spiritual texture of the Church. Marriages are like planes, we only hear of the ones that crash, no wonder sexual perversion has hybernated in the church. Secrets between couples and ignorant application & communication of Love have also damaged the sexual happiness of many homes. The deception of the age and manipulation of sex has crept into the Church. you will wonder what has happen to the BIBLE. 6 to 1 diet of the bible is a terrible formula for a triumphant life, marriage and sex.
 
The first story was recent and i heard to recall the next two with many more that time and space would not permit me to share , and i thought deeply, what exactly is wrong with my generation and sex. The gift has become sinful goad. Indeed ignorance and indiscipline are powerful combinations that perfect bondage and disgrace. shame is indeed the promotion of fools, a fool is one who rejects the knowledge of God.
 
My generation of young people don’t understand that fornication is like a gadget that when you activate play, it takes God to pulse. Amazingly my generation has failed to understand that Adultery works smoothly with unavailability, anonymity and affordability. both sexual perversion works with disobedience to God. when your Spirit is dormant, your flesh will be active. temptation ride on dominant flesh and passive spiritual control.
 
Sex is a divine gift purposely in marriage but Satan perverted it and mass produced the satanic perspective of sex. Sexual urge is an offshoot of chemicals, it begins with words that drive activation of hormones that increase sexual drive. Words power power touch and touch increase these chemical reactions in the body and sexual drive, stimulation and urge is increased to a point of gratification that ends in sex. sexual urge is a body chemistry reaction that also be powered by a seductive force.
 
It is written the power of life and death lies in the tongue, many have silenced their marital peace and harmony with awful communication. when a wife tells or asks her husband “Is sex food” and a husband tells the wife “are you a dog”. Then they have murdered sex in that marriage.i thought couples are meant to be open, honest and sincere since a third party is a marital death warrant. Only maturity helps a man or woman to hear and understand, more so know how to respond. Age is not wisdom, wisdom is superior to age and puberty. Marriage and sex is a matter of wisdom. it takes a prudent wife and a wise man to live sexually happy. Sexual organs don’t talk but are controlled by communications verbal and non verbal! Sex responds to mentality faster than the act itself. Ecstasy or climax is a powerful communication with heavy consequence, communication is a huge decision process. sex is not love but love leads to sex. Erection is not a defect and amorous responses are not mistakes, they communicate judgements.
 
Never ask your spouse, is sex food or are you never tired? It is scarcely possible to leave sex for food but it is very Possible to leave for for sex. when sex is off your menu list, you are inviting tension in your matrimonial home! Denying you spouse sex is killing the marriage.
 
Sex is not an option in marriage, it is an obligation. If you give a woman everything, all the money and comfort and fail to satisfy her sexually or unavailable for sexual unity in marriage, you have done nothing. sex makes a woman feel like a woman. sex makes a man feel the ego of a man. Sex is God ordained pleasure within the confines of marriage. when a car is not serviced, it will loose viscosity.
 
Don’t kill your marriage with sexual denial. They don’t preach this on the altar. Adam and Eve were naked and not ashamed. Men and Women have varying sexual drive, one party passive and the other passive, In marriage we must close the gap else we brake the edge and the serpent will bite. Couple should talk to each other and be willing to render the benevolence Paul admonished in 1 Cor 7:1-5!
 
Some spouses has been deceived by size of organ for sexual satisfaction, it is not what you have but how you use what you have. The man with the biggest male organ in the world is under torments, lonely, abandoned and rejected. Read it up (Roberto Esquivel Cabrera, 54, from Saltillo, Mexico, has a penis measuring a colossal 18.9 inches.) is that what you want? He laments of such a yoke in his life. yet some women and men are seeking satanic means to increase their organ, are you wiser than God? get out if ignorance and read anointed books that teach Christian ways of managing sexual incompatibility.
 
Safe your spouse the temptation out there. Overgrow temptation by eating well at home, eating out is greed punishable with unwanted and ill-bargained calamities. Whatever has no boundaries, is a bondage.  Don’t employ a partner you may never be able to sack your sour experience with. This and more, my generation must know. I believe that this piece would safe a couple, marriage, fornicator, adulterer and a home.
 
My generation must be healed of this sexual mentality defect.
 
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Afolabi Julius Olatunde